Joanna said: “This is time you’re never going to get back. These are the moments we want to capture for you. I know sometimes parents are scared, and they fear the unknown, but I know how grateful families are for those memories after a child has died.
“I think a lot of our families can get nervous about memory making, because of what it signifies to them. But if you’re taking even a small item that your child has made, you have a part of them to keep forever that will hopefully bring happy memories and not sad ones.”
She added: “I feel very privileged to be part of the memory making. I do get a bit choked up sometimes about certain memories that we make here at Acorns, but mostly it brings happy, happy thoughts and we’re so lucky here at Acorns to be part of their lives, however long it is for, to be able to create those moments that families will take with them and remember forever.”
As part of the Celebrate Your Star appeal, Acorns is hosting special celebrations where anyone wishing to remember a loved one can come together to see the collection of stars of remembrance. The events are free and open to all whether people choose to make a dedication or not.
The final two events taking place are at Bournville Quaker Meeting House, Birmingham, on Saturday 7 December; and at Henry Sandon Hall, Worcester, on Sunday 8 December. Attendance is by booking only.
Ben Gilchrist, In Memory Manager at Acorns Children’s Hospice, said: “By dedicating a star you will help give the children and families who use Acorns treasured memories throughout Christmas and into the New Year – and to keep forever.
“Not only will be be remembering your loved ones, your gift will be a light in the darkness for for the children with short lives who need our lifeline care. Help can’t wait for them, especially at this time of year.”
Acorns Children’s Hospice provides specialist palliative care for babies, children and young people with life limiting and life threatening conditions, and support for their families.
In the past year, the charity has cared for more than 780 children across the West Midlands, and supported over 1,000 families, including those who are bereaved.
This care and support is provided from Acorns three hospices, based in Birmingham, Walsall and Worcester, and in the community.
Acorns needs around £35,000 each day to provide its children’s hospice care, with two thirds of that amount coming from generous donations and fundraising by the local community.
Dedicate and receive your star, or book to join one of the Celebrate Your Star events, by visiting www.acorns.org.uk/celebrate-your-star